The Fingerprint of Your Soul.

Marie Dahlgren
3 min readFeb 23, 2021

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A lot of words have been said about our beliefs. We are creatures of these habits and beliefs. We can die and kill just to prove we are “right”.

We still are so immature as humankind. I guess we are pimply teenagers with mood swings and tantrums about everything that we experience in the world. There is a long way to go, for all of us, to grow into young adults and find our true roles in the world.

However, I believe we all came here with a certain “fingerprint” of our soul. You might call it our “gift” to this world, or our “spark”. Perhaps the spark that starts a big chain reaction.

I know that all suffering is actually happening away from this source of our true nature. The good news is that we all hold this unique spark in ourselves and there are ways to uncover and unleash it that are relatively easy and effective.

Uncovering and unleashing the spark is what I do in my coaching practice.

Our world will become beautiful when we finally realize that we are its creators and that we can’t make a happy world while being torn apart inside. Many of us are in a state of seemingly permanent inner and outer conflict with ourselves and others; in conflict with the world as such. We struggle with our own shadows and project them on other people. The world is a perfect reflection of everything you are holding in yourself, consciously or unconsciously.

We all have the same needs and we all have a unique spark. There is no need to be in the state of never-ending competition. We were tricked into believing that nature is competitive in its core and only the strongest survive. Humanity itself started when the first humans, upon being injured, were given the care and opportunity to heal and live on. We are humans, and our humanity, love, and cooperation are the mechanisms of our survival.

None of us would survive if there would not be someone who loved us more than themselves, who would not put their needs above ours. Our strength as humans is LOVE, CARE, KINDNESS, COMPASSION, AND COOPERATION.

These are not mere words: these are the conditions necessary for us to survive and flourish.

We are one. We can still be trapped into thinking that we can be happy living separate from the world in the warmth of our individual homes. The truth is, we live in a big village. We must be better than what we are now to survive and flourish.

When we finally will understand and open our hearts to feel everything and everybody, then we will have a chance to create the world of our dreams.

This world is a perfect mirror. If we don’t like how it looks, then it’s time to change what we put in front of this mirror to be reflected back to us.

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Marie Dahlgren

My name is Marie. I am a Professional Master Coach of Robbins-Madanes Training as well as of Erickson College.